Woman Brings Brownies To A Group Project, Then Refuses To Share The Recipe Out Of Pure Spite

Working on a group project is challenging enough without clashing personalities getting in the way.

While different opinions can strengthen a project, things tend to go downhill when one side starts acting like they have the moral high ground and everyone else needs to catch up.

The original poster found himself paired with classmates whose strong beliefs quickly became the focus of every discussion.

After weeks of feeling judged and being left to finish much of the actual work, he decided not to start a confrontation.

Instead, he waited the group’s celebratory potluck to quietly get even in a way nobody saw coming. Years later, his tiny act of revenge is still paying off.

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Group project rivalry ends with a dessert-fueled act of revenge

Woman Brings Brownies to a Group Project, Then Refuses to Share the Recipe Out of Pure Spite
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'Teammates were annoying so I made them the best brownies of their life?'

A few years ago I was grouped with a couple of teammates on a group project. From the get

go we were not clicking well. They were a type of people I can only describe as vegetarian

idealists. Now I don't mind that type of person generally but it got to the point where the

entire project took on a decidedly preachy tone

and there was hardly any room for a different approach.

They were constantly throwing little comments my way that made it clear they thought they

were better than me. like "I could never be okay with having a ham sandwich"

and "Well you should have cycled today instead of coming with your car".

This came to a head when they decided they wanted to go visit several farmers to talk about

sustainable agriculture. Something I felt was unnecessary and complicated research for the

sake of basically going on a fieldtrip. This would also have taken

multiple days out of our already packed schedule.

So I refused to go, I told them I was fine with them going, but that I felt I was already more

than pulling my weight on the project. I explained that I did not feel like spending my time on

something that ultimately would not contribute to the project. To their credit they were very

understanding. They left the next week and in total spent around

3 full days of our final week on this.

Because I stayed home I got stuck with finishing the actual research while their excursions

ultimately became little more than a footnote in the final report. This did not sit right with

me, but since the end was in sight I did not feel like making a big deal out of it so I let it go.

Mostly...As we were finishing up the project we decided to do a potluck and each bring

something we made at home. Now this is where my plan started to hatch. I have a k__ler

brownie recipe. They are incredibly moist and very flavorful and I have honestly just been

disappointed by any other brownie since.

So come the potluck I brought a full tray of these brownies and of course they loved it.

Everyone came for seconds and the entire thing was empty before the end of the day.

Then came the inquiries for the recipe. "omg these are so good, please send the recipe to

me". "No way I need this recipe!". Of course I promised I would sent it at a later time, but

never planned on doing that. I kept coming up with excuses like

¨oh I forgot, i'll def send it tonight".

Eventually we finished the project, we got good grades and went our separate ways.

But even years later I occasionally get a message from a group member asking for the recipe.

I ignored them all.

I feel satisfied knowing they will probably never have a brownie that was better than mine.

Which I feel like is a fitting punishment for a minor annoyance.

Small acts of disrespect often linger far longer than the major conflicts people expect to remember. It’s rarely one disagreement that stays with someone for years.

Instead, it’s the steady accumulation of dismissive comments, subtle judgments, and feeling like every conversation becomes a lesson about how they should be living.

Eventually, even someone who tries to keep the peace may find themselves wanting a small moment of satisfaction that restores a sense of balance.

In this story, the original poster wasn’t reacting to a single disagreement about vegetarianism or sustainability.

They were navigating weeks of feeling subtly looked down upon by teammates whose personal values seemed to spill into every interaction.

Comments about eating meat, driving instead of cycling, and insisting on unnecessary field research created an atmosphere where disagreement felt less like collaboration and more like a moral failing.

When the poster declined the multi-day farm visits, it wasn’t because they refused to contribute.

In fact, they ended up staying behind to complete much of the core research while the others pursued an experience that ultimately added very little to the final report.

That imbalance quietly became the emotional fuel behind the now-famous brownies.

Most readers will probably laugh at the idea of withholding a brownie recipe as “revenge.”

But psychologically, the dessert wasn’t really the point.

The recipe became symbolic.

Throughout the project, the poster felt as though their ideas, time, and practical approach were undervalued.

For one brief moment, however, they possessed something everyone genuinely admired.

Instead of giving it away, they chose to keep that small victory for themselves.

Interestingly, this reflects a common human response after prolonged feelings of powerlessness. People don’t always seek dramatic revenge.

More often, they seek a harmless reminder that they still have something uniquely their own that cannot be criticized, corrected, or claimed by others.

Viewed through that lens, the brownies were never truly about baking.

They represented one area where the poster wasn’t being judged or lectured.

For once, the same people who had confidently offered opinions about nearly everything were asking for something instead.

Refusing to share the recipe may have been a petty decision, but it was also remarkably harmless compared to many forms of retaliation.

No grades were affected, no reputations were damaged, and no one suffered beyond missing out on a dessert recipe.

Perhaps the most interesting lesson isn’t whether the poster was right or wrong to guard the recipe. It’s that respect often matters far more than agreement.

People are usually willing to accept different values and lifestyles when those differences are shared with humility.

But when everyday conversations begin to feel like moral scorecards, even something as innocent as a pan of brownies can become the sweetest form of quiet resistance.

Here’s what Redditors had to say:

These commenters admitted they expected a much darker revenge story

MichelleNaomiC − I thought this was going to go a completly different way. That you put

something in the brownies that they wouldn't normally eat or something along those lines.

FitPeak3825 − I really thought I was about to read a criminals story.

DistantTraveller1985 − I thought you had put meat on the brownie! But what you did was not

revenge, was being the better person, and yes, it feels good. :)

0r1on55 − Ngl, I thought this would end with you giving them pot brownies, which is illegal

by the way if they dont know they have weed in them, or that the brownies were made

exclusively with nonvegan ingredients.

These Redditors were far more interested in the brownies than the revenge

ENCdawg − Bro post the recipe.

6ft9man − I don't suppose you'd be willing to share that recipe. Asking for myself.

veganx1312 − So where is the recipe? Come on! We have nothing to do with them. Why

taking a petty revenge on us?

Motor-Juggernaut1009 − Was it the Ghirardelli mix from Costco made with coffee instead of water?

This group focused on the unfair group project dynamics

CoderJoe1 − Group projects in college are assigned to disabuse all students that future

corporate coworkers will contribute fairly or at all.

Special_Outside2306 − You 100% made the right choice here. My high school English teacher

made me the most amazing brownie I've ever had when I was 17. I'm now 33 and I still think

about that f__king brownie once or twice a week.

summonsays − " To their credit they were very understanding.  " " Because I stayed home I

got stuck with finishing the actual research  " They didn't want you to come anyway as they're

out goofing off and they leveraged that into making you do the rest of the work. ..

In the end, the project earned a good grade, but the real “revenge” wasn’t in the report, it was in a batch of unforgettable brownies and a recipe that never arrived.

Many readers found the silent payback hilarious, especially after the constant moralizing throughout the project, while others thought withholding a recipe over minor annoyances was a little too petty.

Was this the perfect low-stakes revenge, or should the OP have let the grudge go once the project ended? Share your thoughts below!